Rheta Shan has been my friend and trusted confidante for the better part of a year. Today, after more than a month with no word from her, we learned of her tragic passing.
On 3 April 2009, just days from giving birth to her first child. She was struck down while crossing the street. Her death, we are told, was quick and for that I am grateful. I’m not sure that I could bear the thought of my friend suffering.
Rheta was remarkably brilliant, her’s was the winning entry in Dusan Writer’s User Interface Design contest, she was a vocal advocate for avatar rights, and she is loved by a great many people, most notably her devoted partner, Thaddy. To me, she was the voice of reason. Always talking me down from my ledges, making sense where I found none, and, in turn, allowing me to do the same for her.
Though I will miss you terribly, I know that the things I’ve learned from you will always guide me. Goodbye, my friend.
Valérie M./Rheta Shan
† April 3rd 2009
…oh dear soul, so beautiful…hugs you so very very very tightly…so incredibly tragic…
So sorry Gabby. *hugs you* <3
*hug*
Hugs to you Gabby. Rheta’s loss is a profound one.
Though I am but a stranger, my heart and condolences go out to you and the dearly departed. May she be in peace, along with the little life she was going to bring into the world.
*offers hugs. lots and lots of hugs*